Want to know ways to start conversation with girls that won't leave you feeling like a creep? Interestingly enough, a simple change in mindset can make all the difference in how a woman reacts to you.
1. Don't focus on her reaction
When you approach a woman, your focus should not be on getting her number, or how she reacts to you. You should approach her with the knowledge that it doesn't matter how she reacts, or if she rejects you. (Plenty of hot girls out there.)
Instead, you should just approach her with the attitude that you're going about your day, and if a girl wants to try to win your approval, you'll give her the chance, if you choose.
You don't need to try to get a response or reaction from her. Don't try to make her laugh. Don't set her up to have a higher value you than you.
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2. Ask a simple question
One of the best ways to start conversation with girls is to ask a simple question, like, "Hey, I need a quick female opinion about..."
Or ask her for directions. "Hey. I'm in the mood for a smoothie. Can you tell me where the smoothie place is?"
When you simply ask a girl for help, or advice, in this way, she won't assume, "Here comes a creepy guy trying to get in my pants."
You'll just be a normal person asking for directions. And if you focus on adopting the alpha male mindset and lifestyle before you approach a woman, she'll want to keep the conversation going with you. You will literally become a hot guy in her eyes by adopting this lifestyle.
3. Go in without expectations
You don't need to have an agenda when you talk to a woman; you need to be focused on the answer to your question. Sure, it's okay to say to yourself, "If this woman wants to hang out with me, or come to my place, I'll allow her." But you don't need to expect anything.
When you go in with the mindset that you're the catch, not her, you start screening women as if they've got to win YOUR approval, not the other way around.
This is powerful because it not only increases success with women in terms of getting numbers and dates, but also makes dating a LOT easier.
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Sunday, September 25, 2011
John Alexander Alpha Male PDF - What's In the Book
Here's a quick runthrough of what you get with How to Become an Alpha Male, the ebook by John Alexander. (He also includes bonus books not shown in this video when you make your purchase.)
Saturday, September 24, 2011
How to Improve Confidence With Women
Picture this: you're at the magazine rack and you spot a gorgeous girl. She's got beautiful, silky brown hair and radiant skin. You want to talk to her, but... deep inside, you feel that deep fear of rejection.
Nervousness kicks in, and you know you'd reject yourself if you were her, so you just give up before even talking to her. You don't even know what to say to her, anyway.
Does this sound at all like something you're familiar with?
First of all, you should know that:
1. All guys feel anxious when approaching women, especially beautiful ones.
2. Most guys will never approach the women they desire because they're so afraid.
So what will make you succeed where those other guys fail? What you do to conquer your fear.
For most guys, this fear keeps them from achieving not just success with women, but success in every aspect of their lives. Career, social life, hobbies... everything. Fear is a paralyzing element that keeps them from success.
But you can overcome it. Here's how.
Nervousness kicks in, and you know you'd reject yourself if you were her, so you just give up before even talking to her. You don't even know what to say to her, anyway.
Does this sound at all like something you're familiar with?
First of all, you should know that:
1. All guys feel anxious when approaching women, especially beautiful ones.
2. Most guys will never approach the women they desire because they're so afraid.
So what will make you succeed where those other guys fail? What you do to conquer your fear.
For most guys, this fear keeps them from achieving not just success with women, but success in every aspect of their lives. Career, social life, hobbies... everything. Fear is a paralyzing element that keeps them from success.
But you can overcome it. Here's how.
Download the first chapters of How to Become An Alpha Male free
Realize that your fear comes from inside you, not from women. If you're worried about being rejected, you're focused on getting the girl's number or a date or something.
Instead of having that outcome in mind, try it this way: forget about getting her number, and have your only plan be to talk to her.
Here's why I recommend this method. I used to have a lot of trouble with shyness around women. I had no idea how to improve confidence with women, or how to just get past that initial "Freeze-up" that happened when I wanted to talk to a girl.
I was fortunate enough to make friends with a guy who had this same problem. His name is John Alexander, and he wrote a whole book about overcoming shyness.
To overcome shyness, he told me, you have to talk to everyone. Not just women - old people, young people, men, women, regular people on the street, attractive girls, ugly girls... etc. And when you talk to them, you get past your anxiety.
He said, if you want to make it an instant thing to approach a woman, and not have to feel that fear anymore, you need to first get comfortable talking to as many people as possible.
So to summarize:
1. Socialize just for the sake of doing it. The more you do it, the easier it will get to approach women.
2. Learning how to improve confidence with women only comes with time and practice. The more you talk to them, the more experience you get - and the higher your chances of success.
3. Practice easing physical tension in your body when you're nervous.
Download the first chapters of How to Become An Alpha Male free
Realize that your fear comes from inside you, not from women. If you're worried about being rejected, you're focused on getting the girl's number or a date or something.
Instead of having that outcome in mind, try it this way: forget about getting her number, and have your only plan be to talk to her.
Here's why I recommend this method. I used to have a lot of trouble with shyness around women. I had no idea how to improve confidence with women, or how to just get past that initial "Freeze-up" that happened when I wanted to talk to a girl.
I was fortunate enough to make friends with a guy who had this same problem. His name is John Alexander, and he wrote a whole book about overcoming shyness.
To overcome shyness, he told me, you have to talk to everyone. Not just women - old people, young people, men, women, regular people on the street, attractive girls, ugly girls... etc. And when you talk to them, you get past your anxiety.
He said, if you want to make it an instant thing to approach a woman, and not have to feel that fear anymore, you need to first get comfortable talking to as many people as possible.
So to summarize:
1. Socialize just for the sake of doing it. The more you do it, the easier it will get to approach women.
2. Learning how to improve confidence with women only comes with time and practice. The more you talk to them, the more experience you get - and the higher your chances of success.
3. Practice easing physical tension in your body when you're nervous.
Download the first chapters of How to Become An Alpha Male free
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