Sunday, September 25, 2011

3 Proven Ways to Start Conversations With Girls

Want to know ways to start conversation with girls that won't leave you feeling like a creep? Interestingly enough, a simple change in mindset can make all the difference in how a woman reacts to you.

1. Don't focus on her reaction

When you approach a woman, your focus should not be on getting her number, or how she reacts to you. You should approach her with the knowledge that it doesn't matter how she reacts, or if she rejects you. (Plenty of hot girls out there.)

Instead, you should just approach her with the attitude that you're going about your day, and if a girl wants to try to win your approval, you'll give her the chance, if you choose.

You don't need to try to get a response or reaction from her. Don't try to make her laugh. Don't set her up to have a higher value you than you.

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2. Ask a simple question

One of the best ways to start conversation with girls is to ask a simple question, like, "Hey, I need a quick female opinion about..."

Or ask her for directions. "Hey. I'm in the mood for a smoothie. Can you tell me where the smoothie place is?"

When you simply ask a girl for help, or advice, in this way, she won't assume, "Here comes a creepy guy trying to get in my pants."

You'll just be a normal person asking for directions. And if you focus on adopting the alpha male mindset and lifestyle before you approach a woman, she'll want to keep the conversation going with you. You will literally become a hot guy in her eyes by adopting this lifestyle.

3. Go in without expectations

You don't need to have an agenda when you talk to a woman; you need to be focused on the answer to your question. Sure, it's okay to say to yourself, "If this woman wants to hang out with me, or come to my place, I'll allow her." But you don't need to expect anything.

When you go in with the mindset that you're the catch, not her, you start screening women as if they've got to win YOUR approval, not the other way around.

This is powerful because it not only increases success with women in terms of getting numbers and dates, but also makes dating a LOT easier.

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1 comment:

  1. So it's time for you to face it and assume you are talking to them for a reason. There is no need to feel embarrassed. Everybody does it. How to Make Love to a Woman

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